Interview Series #1: Colleen Patrick-Goudreau

First of all -- I have to say that I am just plain blown away by the outpouring of support, warmhearted thoughts, and love being given to my blog right now. It is overwhelming, humbling, and so wonderful. If you are new to Kiss Me, I'm Vegan! - welcome! If you've been a follower from the beginning - why hello, old friend!  And if you are a Kind Lifer who found my blog through Alicia Silverstone's rockin' post about me - I am so happy to have you here to enjoy this journey with me.

For the past few months, I've been reaching out to mentors of mine in the vegan world to find out about their personal journeys toward veganism and animal advocacy. Well, today, I have a lovely treat for you all - my very first interview with one of those mentors, the amazing Colleen Patrick-Goudreau.


Colleen Patrick-Goudreau, pictured with a rescued hen 
(photo courtesy of the Compassionate Cooks website) 


For those who may be unfamiliar with this awesome lady, Colleen is one of my all-time vegan heroes. From her beautiful cookbooks (The Joy of Vegan Baking, a vegan baking must, and more recently, The Vegan Table), to her thought-provoking DVDs and "Food for Thought" podcasts, to her smart, kind, and truly revolutionary website, Compassionate Cooks - Colleen has made it easier and more accessible than ever to make the transition to a vegan diet and lifestyle. She's a passionate animal advocate and an inspiration to so many people who want to create a better world for animals - and especially those who want to eat delicious and satisfying food in the process. In the eyes of this vegan lady from Brooklyn, well, she just plain rocks!


 photo courtesy of the Compassionate Cooks website   


And now, without further ado, my interview with
Ms. Colleen Patrick-Goudreau: 

Kiss Me, I'm Vegan: What was the turning point in your life that led you to veganism? Was it one huge moment, or a collective group of small moments that changed you?

Colleen: Both - in a way!  I had already been an activist around such issues of puppy mills and animals in research but my first 'a-ha' moment that paved the way for where I am now came when I read John Robbins Diet for a New America, and I saw what happened to animals bred and killed for human consumption. I could no longer justify eating mammals and I stopped right then and there. It started me on a path to learn everything I could about these issues, and while I did so, I would share everything I learned with everyone I met. But I wasn’t fully awake; I was still consuming cow's milk, chicken's eggs, and fish - making the typical excuses so many make, because I just didn't want to believe I was contributing to suffering - until I read Slaughterhouse by Gail Eisnitz. My life was changed overnight. Over the course of an incredibly painful couple of days reading that book it became clear to me that no animal raised for human consumption - whether for their flesh, milk, or eggs - escapes the horrors and cruelties of slaughter. I became vegan, I became fully awake, and I became dedicated to raising awareness about animal suffering and to being a voice for those who cannot speak for themselves.
 
KMIV: What have been the greatest rewards of your vegan lifestyle? What have been the greatest challenges?

Colleen: Every day brings huge rewards, both for me personally and because of the work I'm honored to do. The most rewarding aspect is hearing from so many wonderful people around the globe who share their stories of transformation with me. I'm so humbled to be part of their journey and hold so much hope because of the openness and compassion I witness in people.

Personally, knowing that the daily choices I make reflect my deepest values of compassion and nonviolence is an incredible way to live.   Becoming awake changed my life in profound ways - it's like I've fully integrated all the parts of myself. There's no guilt, there are no excuses, there's no hiding from the truth. I can look it straight on and not be afraid of it.

In terms of my health, I have a total cholesterol of 102, an abundance of energy, and I'm told that my skin and eyes are bright. :)  In general, my body functions as it should, particularly in the - how shall I say? - digestive and reproductive departments: regular like clockwork, no cramps, no PMS, light cycles - very different than before I was vegan. It's worth mentioning that I attribute these benefits not only to being vegan  - but to eating a whole foods plant-based diet.

My biggest challenge is not having the means to reach a larger audience. I certainly can't compete with the huge marketing machine that runs the meat, dairy, and eggs industries, so I just plug away each day. I'm thoroughly convinced that people want this information so desperately. They want to be healthier; they want to align their values with their behavior, they don't want to create suffering, and I'm so frustrated by people (so many people!) who keep the bar low and abandon all hope and expectation. "People will never stop eating animals! It's too hard," they say. "Tish and pish," I say! "The problem is if we keep telling people it's too hard, they'll start to believe you! It's so incredibly beautiful to raise the bar and watch people rise to it. I'm not surprised by it at all, because I have faith in people, but it's certainly wonderful to witness.
 
KMIV: What inspired you to create the Compassionate Cooks website?

 
Colleen: When I became vegan, my activism increased tenfold. The more outreach I did, the more I realized that the questions people had boiled down to food, nutrition, social aspects, practical aspects, spiritual aspects, and so Compassionate Cooks was born of a desire to fill those gaps for people - to address their challenges. It started with basic leafleting and tabling, moved to cooking classes, then the DVD, then the first cookbook (Joy of Vegan Baking), then the podcast (Vegetarian Food for Thought), then the second cookbook (The Vegan Table), and so on. The website has expanded as my projects have, though I admit we've outgrown it and need a re-design. A girl can dream.  

KMIV: What advice would you give someone who is interested in veganism, but afraid of taking the leap?    

Colleen: I just encourage people to be true to themselves. If they feel compelled to make a transition overnight, then do it. If they feel compelled to do it slowly, then at least do something. But just be honest.

A common assertion I hear from people is that they could stop eating all animal products except X, and that X is usually cheese. And I say, “well, then STOP EATING all other animal products except cheese - for now. At least do what you're able and willing to do. But don't do NOTHING because you can't do EVERYTHING. Each step will bring you closer to the person you really want to be - and to the animals you want to help. But to continue eating animal flesh and animal's milk or eggs because you can’t give up cheese – doesn’t make any sense. It’s an absurd rationalization. “Don’t do nothing because you can’t do everything. Do something. Anything.”  (**one of my absolute favorite quotes ever, by the way!**)


Plus, if you think about it, we only eat the same 7 or 8 meals all the time – we just rotate them! So, transitioning is as easy as creating a new 7 or 8 meals to rotate, while still eating foods that are familiar to us. So, first sit down and see what meals you already eat that are “vegan.” You’ll find you might already make a great pasta dish with marinara sauce or a vegetable stir fry. Next “veganize” something you already love. So, for instance, if you make pesto with parmesan cheese, just remove the cheese, and you’ll be thoroughly satisfied with the pine nuts, basil, garlic, and olive oil. Or, if you make egg salad, try it with firm tofu crumbled up instead. Then, incorporate two or three new dishes into your repertoire. Now you have 7 or 8 NEW dishes that you can rotate. In terms of eating out, that’s also really easy. Don’t feel limited to what looks vegan on the menu – most places can easily “veganize” existing dishes. Ask them to remove the cheese on something and to add some nuts instead; many soups are made with veggie stock; tell them to replace the meat with more veggies. You’d be surprised.



photo courtesy of the Compassionate Cooks website


I could go on and on, but I address these and a gazillion other issues and challenges for people in my podcast, Vegetarian Food for Thought. (It's all vegan.) It's available on iTunes or at www.vegetarianfoodforthought.com, and there are over 110 episodes to choose from - covering everything from food, nutrition, and cooking to the spiritual, social, and practical aspects of living compassionately - living vegan.
   
KMIV: Okay -  you're stuck on a desert island with three vegan food items - what are they?
 
Colleen: Well, the first HAS to be tea! As my regular podcast listeners know, I take my tea EVERYwhere, so that would definitely be with me on this hypothetical island! Green tea and also white - but mostly green: dragonwell, Lu Shan Clouds and Mist, gyukuro. (Does that all count as one?) Next, kale. No doubt. Finally, chocolate. Duh! :)

Thanks to Colleen Patrick-Goudreau and Amanda Mitchell at Compassionate Cooks for making this interview possible. To learn more about Colleen and her work, please visit www.compassionatecooks.com.

My feature on Alicia Silverstone's website, The Kind Life!


 
Alicia Silverstone, you rock!

Hey lovely people --

So, after a long day of work and a walk home with grocery bags in hand, I plopped down on my comfy blue couch to catch up on the computer, only to discover the most amazing thing to happen this week - my blog, Kiss Me, I'm Vegan, and I have been featured on Alicia Silverstone's awesome website, The Kind Life! To view the post, you can go here:


I'd also been planning to blog about this once I got the pictures online (I'll share them later) - I had the great fortune of meeting the awe-inspiring Mrs. Silverstone this past weekend! After reaching out to her about Rock It Out - we featured her book, The Kind Diet, as a raffle prize at the benefit - she graciously organized a day for Steve and me to meet her at the theater of her current Broadway production of Time Stands Still (for which she is receiving rave reviews). We chatted for a good twenty minutes about her show, veganism, and the work I've been doing with my blog and fundraiser. Meeting her was a dream come true for me, especially because she has been vegan for almost twelve years now - my hero!

Thank you so much to all of your generous support, guys and gals, because you have allowed me to grow into a bloganista, of sorts (yes, I just made up a word - I'm excited about all of this, what can I say!). You are all amazing people whom I respect and love dearly - and I am elated to be able to share this fabulous news with you!

Rock It Out: A Night to Benefit New York's Farm Animal Sanctuaries


Last Saturday morning, I raced around like a mad woman all over the city.

I had very good reason to, because in a mere few hours, I was about to embark on a first in my life - producing, hosting, and performing at an animal advocacy benefit. The idea was a teeny tiny seed that popped up into my head a few months ago: since Steve and I were planning a big move to the west coast in the fall, I wanted to give something huge back to the community that has given me so much. Farm Sanctuary in Watkins Glen, NY, and the Woodstock Farm Animal Sanctuary in Woodstock, NY, were two organizations who had completely reaffirmed my belief in veganism and in how important it is to be the voice for the countless innocent and defenseless animals being tortured on factory farms. I've volunteered, and even almost interned, at Farm Sanctuary, and I was fortunate enough to visit Woodstock Farm Animal Sanctuary back in October with Steve. I wanted to create a night to celebrate them, to support them, and to allow them to raise awareness to the public about what brave and heroic work they do.

But I was terrified - who would come to this thing? How was I going to pull off a first-time benefit? What if I didn't raise enough money? What if no one would like my ideas? 

See, fear is a natural deterrent in life. You can fear failure, success, or if you're me, you can fear something as simple as being stuck in the dark (been that way since I was a kid - stupid horror movies). The fear I was feeling with this was very real - and it was keeping me from taking the leap to organize the benefit of my dreams.

 Steve capturing it all on tape...

But then I started Cami Walker's 29 Day Giving Challenge. I began giving away one gift a day for 29 days - gifts as small as a hug or kind thought, or as big as a large donation to someone in need. And my heart began to open up to possibility. And I began to feel less afraid about my idea or about who would help me pull this off. It's amazing how giving can lead you to feel comfortable in receiving.

The highlights of receiving included (but were definitely not limited to): 

- David Benzaquen of Farm Sanctuary, and Jenny Brown and Rebecca Moore of Woodstock Farm Animal Sanctuary, graciously donated their time, emotional support, and efforts to the weeks leading up to the big night, and of course, on the big night.

 Jenny Brown

David Benzaquen

- My event was listed on brilliant vegan websites such as The Discerning Brute and Ecorazzi.com.

- Alicia FREAKIN' Silverstone blogged about my event on her website, The Kind Life!! Even better than that, I will have a chance to personally thank her for her support this Sunday, when I take one of the raffle winners to her to have The Kind Diet personally signed by Alicia!! Rock on!!

The raffle table

I set a date - March 6th. I prayed the people I contacted about helping and performing would be available. They were. I prayed that both sanctuaries would be able to come and speak that night. They were. I prayed that people would buy tickets and come to this little benefit of mine. And man, they did.

 People!

The day of the event, what I thought would be a thirty - maybe forty? - person event turned into over 100 people on the reservation list alone. Now, my fear was even more real - how was I going to accomodate so many people? Not the worst problem to have when organizing a benefit...

 Mama's awesome posters

So, Steve, my insanely awesome husband, and I embarked on a day of buying vegan catering platters from Whole Foods, 25 bottles of vegan wine, and all of the decorations and trimmings we could think of to help make the night special. My insanely awesome mom came in early (all the way from DELAWARE!) with more decorations, raffle prizes she had bought and made to help with the night, and handmade posters to direct people to the show. The rest of my family and Steve's family chipped in money to help us pay for the abundant amount of refreshments we ended up buying, because, well, they're insanely awesome too. 

 Insanely awesome family

What was the final result of all this?

Over 150 people joined us for Rock It Out.


A few handfuls of generous volunteers came on board to help me with the whole night. 


2 amazingly talented photographers - Mr. Michael Bartelle and Mr. Ben Strothmann - donated their time and skills to document the whole thing. 

Over 200 baked goods were sold at the bake sale.


Our in-house artist, Stephanie Chisholm, was a huge hit.

 

Seven rockin performers sang their hearts out over a sea of happy, chatty people.

 Shaina Taub

Melissa Lusk, Matt Roi Berger, and Shaina Taub

Cristin Milioti

Jay Stolar

Kaylin Lee Clinton with Neimah Djourabchi

Grace McLean

(That's me!)

Raffles prizes abounded. 


And... drum roll please....


We raised 3000 dollars.

3000 dollars!!!?!?

Yessiree, 3000 dollars.

After reimbursing for pre-event expenses, tears filled my eyes as Steve counted off how much money would go to each sanctuary. When I had begun this whole thing, my dream was to hand a thousand bucks to each sanctuary. Well, this week, we will be sending checks for $1300 to each sanctuary.

What may be even cooler than the money we raised is the fact that we raised a crazy amount of awareness about the cruelty going on for these animals, how very important it is to adopt a vegan diet, and how desperately needed each person's individual food and life choices are.

The next morning, Steve and my family went out to brunch, and something magical happened - we spent hours discussing the plight of farm animals, the benefits (and challenges) of a vegan diet, and animal rights in general. I was blown away by how the conversation never seemed to end - everyone was interested in talking more about it. And it's experiences like this that show me I need to keep going with my own activism. Because there is such a thing as a ripple effect, and boy, have I seemed to make a lot of ripples. :)

So, like a proud mama, I am feeling empowered, joyous, and so very thankful on this rainy, Saturday morning in March. Because not only did I manage to make this all happen, but more people than I can count helped me take what was once a teeny tiny seed and make it into something bigger than I could have ever imagined. 

Thank you to everyone who lent a hand in making this night possible. You have made this little vegan lady supremely giddy and - best of all - hopeful about our world again. 


** All photographs above are courtesy of the tremendously talented Michael Bartelle and Ben Strothmann. **

Meerkat Manor

My newest obsession? Catching up on the hilarious and surprisingly moving reality series, "Meerkat Manor", which has had several seasons so far on Animal Planet (spanning 2006 to 2008).


In case you haven't heard of this show, I found a really wonderful description of it, found on pazsaz.com:

"Meerkat Manor  premiered on Animal Planet on June 9, 2006. With all the love, squabbling, self-sacrifice and rivalry found in any family, a group of meerkats struggles to survive in Africa's Kalahari Desert. Don't let their cuddly appearance fool you though - there's a good reason these meerkat families are called a "mob." Meerkat Manor was filmed with the assistance of Cambridge University, which is conducting a 10-year study on meerkats. From family quarrels to love affairs to backstabbing worthy of a Shakespearean tale, these fuzzy reality TV stars pack a huge dramatic punch."

As a vegan, I have completely opened myself up to the hearts, minds, and bodies of the creatures on this Earth. I have tried to tread lightly and with a compassionate hand as I make daily choices, whether it's what to do with the tiny ant I find on my bathroom floor, or what I have for lunch. Animals have become as important to me as the people who inhabit this world of ours, and I am a better human for it. 

So, how does my vegan lifestyle connect to a reality show about meerkats? Well, for one thing, watching these little furry beings has shown me that animals are not unlike their human counterparts.

Meerkats:

1) Need each other for companionship and protection (so much so, that without a group to live amongst, a meerkat's chances of survival are slim),
2) Care for each other through grooming and snuggling,
3) Occasionally will feel betrayed by a loved one,
4) Have egos,
5) Live according to a social hierarchy, with a dominant female and/or male at the head of the family,
6) Nurse their babies,
7) Get jealous,
8) Babysit each other's children,

and the list goes on...

The funny part about all of this is that meerkats are no different than cows in their protective and nurturing qualities. The biggest difference between the two animals? Meerkats eat mainly bugs for survival, whereas cows are natural vegans.

I've been reading a wonderful book called Yoga and Vegetarianism by Sharon Gannon, and in it, she writes: 

"Some meat eaters defend their choice by saying that it is natural, because animals eat one another in the wild. When people bring this up as a rationale for eating meat, I remind them that the animals that end up on our plates aren't those who eat one another in the wild. The animals we exploit for food are not the lions, tigers, and bears of the world. We eat the gentle ones - vegan animals who, if given the choice, would never eat the flesh of other animals, although they are forced to so on today's farms when they are fed "enriched feed" containing rendered animal parts."

Watching meerkats in action has taught me that it is a silly and sad notion to assume that animals have any less intelligence than humans, simply because they don't speak our language. As Alicia Silverstone discussed in The Kind Diet, every single animal on Earth is needed to keep our world healthy and whole - right down to the worms who enrich the soil.

So, today, if you are still finding animals or their by-products on your dinner plate, try to think for a moment about that animal. Whether it's a small prayer for the animal who gave its service and/or life to be a part of your meal, or a moment of awareness,  I encourage you to devote some time to recognizing the connection between your meal and the animal who existed before it. 

And I will leave you with this last little offering from Sharon Gannon (also taken from Yoga and Vegetarianism):
  
"You can only abuse and exploit others if you feel disconnected from them and have no idea about the potency inherent in your own actions. If you feel connected, you know that it's you, as well as other living things, who will suffer from the suffering you inflict... Don't wait for a better world. Start now to create a world of harmony and peace. It is up to you, and it always has been! You may even find the solution at the end of your fork."

I miss Christmas (what's new?)

Snow is falling outside of my Brooklyn apartment window on this February morning. I'm sipping coffee with almond milk and a little pumpkin spice in it. My husband is sitting next to me as one of our cats, Gus, lays dreamily on the couch pillow. Steve has allowed me a luxury this morning - listening to Christmas music for a little bit before we update ourselves with the next episodes of Lost and Modern Family. In other words: Absolute bliss...

What is it about this time of year I love so much that I celebrate it all year round, you may be wondering?


Well, it's a million little things, I think. How family gets together and the world around us seems to disappear for a few days... how people open their hearts to others... how much care is put into what food we prepare for each holiday celebration. The music. The lights. The movies. The traditions. The snow (if we're lucky - and this year, we've been more than lucky!). The memories accounted for. How no matter what your life circumstances, everyone seems to be celebrating and preparing together. Did I mention the food?

All of this holiday dreaming has caused me to reflect about how traditions have changed since I went vegan over a year ago. If anything, traditions have deepened for me. What were once activities I enjoyed doing at the holidays - baking cookies, decorating the tree, making Christmas dinner - have now become events I hold dearly in my heart, because I have begun to make them unique to my own life journey. By adding my own twist to a time-honored tradition and sticking to it over the years, I will make my own time-honored traditions for my family to come. That's kind of awesome in my book.

Someone asked me yesterday when I told them I was vegan and my family wasn't, "So you're the only vegan at the dinner table?" And I replied back to them, "Well, actually, since going vegan, my mom has taken a month-long vegan pledge, my brother has cut down his meat and dairy intake, my sister went vegetarian for a year, and my husband went vegan." I hadn't even thought to mention that friends around me have become interested in adding vegan elements to their lives, Steve's mom has opened herself up to vegan cooking, and my blog has inspired people whom I've never met to make changes in their own lives. The ripple effect of my own personal decision has affected so many people, and that is a very sacred thing to me. Much like a new take on an old tradition.

I think for our world to change, people need be open to change within themselves. For that to happen, traditions should be honored yet malleable, hearts should be full yet open, and unconditional love should be present at all times. In defining my own life by a principle - to do the least amount of harm in my daily life and live vegan everyday - I have been able to take traditions that seemed set in stone and added myself to them. And as a lovely side effect of adding myself, I have added compassion, awareness, empathy, and openness. 

 
Our first vegan - and married - Thanksgiving.

Before going vegan, my husband once said that he couldn't imagine Thanksgiving dinner without turkey. And this past holiday, we managed to have a completely vegan holiday, and it was more delicious and more satisfying to me than possibly any other prior Thanksgiving. Because for the first time maybe ever, we managed to make it our tradition, rather than a tradition that was handed to us. 

My hope for everyone is that this year, in this new decade, we all will allow ourselves to grow, be more open than before, and look at traditions with new eyes. This doesn't lessen the meaning of what we've done before - if anything, it strengthens it. It causes us to remain present, grateful, and invested in our daily actions, our rituals, and our holiday celebrations. 

Even if that means listening to Christmas music in February.

Crazy about Quinoa!

It's been a while - helllooo!

A short update on my past month:

1) Been doing my 29 Day Giving Challenge for 24 days now!
2) Visited Boston to see my bro and sis this past weekend - ate at awesome Boston veggie restaurants like Veggie Planet, The Other Side (not totally veg, but tons of veggie options), and Peace o' Pie. Yum!
3) Have been working like mad on my NY Farm Animal Sanctuary fundraiser. Are YOU coming?

But back to the point...

I really am crazy about quinoa. And for good reason - aside from being a grain that is naturally high in protein, when cooked right, it just tastes amazing. Nutty, fluffy, and fun to eat, quinoa has become my new favorite side-kick to lunches and dinners. And did I mention it's cheap? Like all whole grains, if you buy it in the bulk section of your favorite grocery store or health food store, you can get a whole lot for just a few bucks. Rockin. 

 
Quinoa!

I just made a quinoa recipe from Alicia Silverstone's stellar book, The Kind Diet, and it was so delish I needed to share it here. It takes about 20 minutes to make, only requires a few ingredients, and is a simple and fun way to introduce quinoa into your diet. I used cashew pieces and added golden raisins to mine, and it came out perfectly. Enjoy! 

Quinoa with Basil and Pine Nuts
from The Kind Diet by Alicia Silverstone
recipe by Alicia Silverstone

Serves 2

1 c. quinoa
pinch of sea salt
1/2 c. pine nuts or cashews
1 tbsp. olive oil
1 generous handful fresh basil leaves, chopped

Place the quinoa in a strainer and rinse well. Combine the quinoa with 2 cups of water and the salt in a saucepan and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat, cover, and simmer for 20 minutes. 

While the quinoa cooks, heat the pine nuts in a small dry skillet over medium heat. Toast until the nuts are just starting to turn golden, about 6 to 7 minutes, shaking the pan frequently to prevent burning. Transfer to a serving bowl to cool. 

Add the quinoa to the serving bowl with the pine nuts and fluff with a fork. Add the olive oil and basil, stir to combine, and serve.

For more information about Alicia Silverstone and The Kind Diet, go to www.thekindlife.com