Kissing 101 Review

I decided to write this Kissing 101 review after having the opportunity to hear all six parts of the audio course. If you're lacking a little something special with your partner, or if you're looking to woo a potential significant other, you'll find this brief review of particular interest. Do you have a reputation for being a less than stellar kisser? Do you think you're an okay kisser, but you'd like to take your game to the next level? Are you a fantastic kisser, but are always open to new ideas? If any of these things are true, have I got a secret for you: Kissing 101.Kissing 101: Your Complete Guide to Kissing Tips and Techniques is an audio course that will walk you through the process of becoming an amazing kisser. It is something that can work regardless of whether or not you have someone to practice kissing on. In perfect detail, you'll learn all of the methods you need to practice with or without a partner. The course also comes with a book, complete with full color photos and illustrations!

Kissing 101 will help you to master the art of the French kiss, discover what it takes to kiss someone for the first time and eliminate the nerves that keep you from making the first move you so desperately want made. Even if you discover that the person doesn't want to kiss you back, Kissing 101 will teach you what to do. You'll even find out the little secrets that can morph you from an average kisser into an amazing one.

I highly recommend Kissing 101 to anyone who is looking to expand their kissing horizons. Anything that can teach you how to make someone want to kiss you is okay in my book!

KMIV's Children's Review of Ruby Roth's "V is for Vegan: The ABCs of Being Kind"

We had the lovely opportunity of interviewing Ruby Roth back in August 2010 for our KMIV Interview Series (after you're done reading this, you can go back and read the interview here) about her & her first book That's Why We Don't Eat Animals, which had been out for a little over a year. Since then, Ruby has penned/inked/drawn two more! Vegan is Love and this post's feature: V is for Vegan: The ABCs of Being Kind.  This latest children's book dives into the basics of veganism, food, compassion, & environmental responsibility with the alphabet.

"A is for animals - friends, not food. We don't eat our friends, they'd find it quite rude."

Moving through the alphabet - "D is for dairy. Moo! Milk is for cows," "R is for rescue / from shelters, not stores," "Y is for you because your choices matter," and, my favorite, "E is for eggs -- from a chicken's butt?! Wow." -  Ruby picks out the best words to educate, entertain, express positivity and joy, and provide a truthful connection for our youthful readers. Alongside her beautiful, vivid, and engaging illustrations, Ruby introduces us to the plant-based food groups, presents animals in different environments and situations, and sheds light on positive & responsible steps we all can take to spread compassion around.

As an adult who's worked with children for over a decade, I found this book mixed humor, creativity, and critical thinking perfectly in its alphabetical education package.  While intended for three to seven olds, the book is definitely still fun & informative for you too. (Definitely me too!) With so much talent and sensitivity for presenting "adult" topics to children in an easy-to-understand manner, Ruby brings the heart of what it means to live healthfully and with unconditional love to families in the most colorful way. 

Don't take my word for it! Here's a review from two young readers!





And here's the book trailer video for further fun watching:





For more information about Ruby, her books & art, and activism for a new generation,




Happy 5th Veganniversary to Lindsay! A Love Letter to the Creator of Kiss Me, I'm Vegan!

KMIV family,

Today, we celebrate a joyous day. A pivotal day. A revolutionary day. Five years ago, Lindsay adopted a vegan lifestyle. After several months of experimentation and wavering, from vegetarian to pescatarian to vegetarian to vegan and all through the cycle again, Lindsay committed to a cruelty-free life, a life of compassion to all living beings, a long life of health & happiness, a life in alignment with her beliefs and principles. October 11th, 2008, Lindsay went/became/awakened vegan.


This action started an incredible positive ripple effect. The first of many beneficial happenings? The creation of Kiss Me, I'm Vegan! Yes, this here blog that you've been following for years, months, weeks, or maybe just discovered today - all because Lindsay made a life-changing choice and decided to document her amazing journey.



What else has happened because Lindsay has gone vegan? Well, I went vegan in September 2009 (over 4 years vegan!), my mom went vegan in 2010, my dad eats significantly better (because my mom is an amazing plant-based cook!), Lindsay's brother and sister are vegan, Lindsay's brother's fiancee is vegan, Lindsay's mom eats mostly plant-based and has strengthened her already deep bond with animals, Lindsay's step-mom is vegetarian, Lindsay's dad eats fewer animal foods, one of my best friends - a former "grillmaster" of various animal foods - is vegan, two of our closest LA friends are vegan - as is their beautiful daughter, and several other friends have gone vegetarian or vegan. We've made a plethora of new & close friendships in NYC, LA, and elsewhere; we've established a home away from home at Farm Sanctuary's Animal Acres in Acton, CA; I got my plant-based nutrition & holistic health coaching certification and now have a Life Nutrition & Reiki business (Ahimsa Life Coaching & Reiki For Creative Minds); we've organized and hosted three fantastic fundraising events for Farm Sanctuary; Lindsay won the Friend of Farm Animals Award; we've connected with the MOST amazing, supportive, engaged crowd - all of you special followers! Boy, oh, boy (or girl, oh, girl), I could go on and on and on.


Oh wait! One of the most important things to come from all of

this? I'll put it like this, there are estimates from 95-195 animals saved for every year you eat/live vegan (numerous variables - for land animals, sea animals, clothing in addition to food, etc.).  So, Lindsay, for all estimates-sake, has individually/ directly saved 475-975 animals. With the compassionate chain reaction she put into motion, just think about all of the animals saved. Wow wow wow, what a beautiful thought.


I want to personally celebrate my beautiful wife, and your most kissable blogger, Lindsay. Her dedication, drive, resolve, love, heart, compassion, passion, focus, and awareness for/of veganism is outstanding. Whether she knows it or not, she's made an indelible mark on this world, though she may not be able to measure it tangibly. She can measure it in my complete and utter love, appreciation, and respect - and hopefully all of yours too! Beyond marrying Lindsay, going vegan was one of the best choices I've ever made in my life; and, like marrying Lindsay, it's a choice that I've committed to for my entire life (which will be a lot longer because of it!). Thank you, my love.


To fully celebrate this five year benchmark, the first five years of a lifetime of health & compassion, I encourage YOU
 to please share a bit about your vegan story. How long have you been vegan? What do you love about being vegan? How has KMIV played a positive part in your life?



While both Lindsay and I may be more MIA recently with the blog, we're still here, we're still living, loving, and spreading the good word of how to be incredibly kissable as a vegan.  Thank you all for your support, and for joining us on this special day.


Happy 5th Veganniversary, Lindsay!


Kiss Me, I'm Vegan!: Interview Series #23: Mark Devries, director of Speciesism: The Movie

Speciesism The MovieWhether it's food-related (Forks Over Knives, Vegucated, Got the Facts on Milk?) or compassion/ethics-related (Earthlings, Fowl Play, Blackfish), documentaries are incredibly powerful tools to explain what vegan means, create new conscious connections to animals & all living beings, present the healthiest way to eat & live.  Beyond words on a page, this visual medium of film, chock full of information, allows us to go on a deeper journey into a world presented with purpose and meaning.  The aforementioned documentaries, and so many more, have been influential in spreading the word of compassion, of bringing veganism to the mainstream in a creative and responsible way. Another documentary is coming that will continue the line of progress, of growth, of communication, of awareness - Speciesism: The Movie.

We had the wonderful pleasure to chat with the film's director, Mark Devries.  Featuring interviews with such prominent figures as Peter Singer, Bruce Friedrich, Temple Grandin, and Richard Dawkins, along with a suspenseful journey into the world of factory farming - one of the many institutions that furthers "speciesism" (according to Mirriam-Webster: "prejudice or discrimination based on species..." "the assumption of human superiority..." "especially against animals"), we explore what this concept really means and how it has affected our lives, affects our lives now, and will affect our lives to come if we don't make a change.

The doc recently premiered in NYC and is heading around the country to locations near you (hopefully!).  Let's dive into the word & the world of Speciesism with Mark:

Kiss Me, I'm Vegan!: What was the turning point in your life that led you to veganism? Was it one huge moment, or a collective group of small moments that changed you? When did you first understand what "speciesism" was?

Mark: I became vegan while filming this documentary. Things began innocently enough: I came across a few PETA demonstrations, and wanted to learn more about what was behind it all. Eventually, this led me across the country, sneaking onto factory farm property, flying in propeller planes overhead to record the environmental devastation they cause, and - though I can't yet reveal how - even convincing some factory farm owners to let me inside.

Mark Devries
Surprisingly, though, this wasn't enough to make me go vegan. What really changed me was learning about speciesism, which is why I gave the movie that name. A growing number of scientists, lawyers, and academics have been arguing that our most basic ethical principles - such as that causing suffering is a bad thing - extend to nonhuman animals, precisely because they are capable of suffering. The widespread assumption that nonhuman animals suffering matters less, they conclude, is a form of prejudice no more justifiable than racism.  If this is correct, it would mean that what happens to animals on factory farms is a phenomena of unfathomable significance.  

I spoke with many of the scholars on the cutting edge of this philosophical discussion, to see if I could put forward an argument to justify this sharp distinction that we draw between humans and nonhuman animals.  The more I spoke with them, the more clear it seemed that they really are onto something.  That was the realization that made me vegan.

KMIV: What have been the greatest rewards of your vegan lifestyle? What have been the greatest challenges?

M: At first, it seemed like it would be a difficult change.  In actuality, making new food choices is not a difficult task, when you know how to do it.  I go to places like Whole Foods and Trader Joe's, and can find vegan versions of pretty much everything I ate before.  The unexpected rewards, though, were all of the new foods and dishes that I discovered.  I never ate this much delicious food before I became vegan. (How could I have never even tasted quinoa?  How is that even possible?)

KMIV: Tell us about the birth & journey of Speciesism: The Movie. Trials and tribulations, joys and rewards, and upcoming plans.

M: The most difficult parts of the whole experience took place during the filming itself.  It was sometimes just very painful to speak with the neighbors of pig factory farms, who are having their water polluted so that they can't use their wells, their air polluted so that they sometimes collapse in their back yards, and their lives downright ruined. It was also sometimes more than a little intimidating to walk up to factory farms and confront their owners on camera.  

It has been a joy to see the audience reactions.  Just last week, at the sold-out world premiere in New York City, the audience reactions were outstanding.  When people contact me to tell me that the film changed their lives, I couldn't imagine a bigger reward.  

Speciesism premiereThe movie's West Coast premiere will be in Los Angeles on September 26, the Northern California premiere will be in San Francisco on September 30, the Midwest premiere will be in Chicago on October 2, and the Washington, DC premiere will be October 10. The tickets are selling quickly, though, so if you would like to attend any of these events, you should reserve your seats soon at http://SpeciesismTheMovie.com/screenings.
 
KMIV: How do you think filmmaking and more visual artistic vehicles, beyond what's on the written page, can benefit the mainstream/world in spreading the message of veganism & concepts like speciesism?

M: Documentary film, and investigative journalism involving video recording, can make a tremendous difference. There does not appear to be a medium that can bring specific places and events to people with as much clarity as these.  I hope to continue using these mediums to help bring attention and discussion to a number of topics, and I hope and believe that many other people will do the same.

KMIV: Kiss Me, I'm Vegan!, while informing and educating, definitely focuses on the positive, the "moving forward" side of veganism, compassion, etc. What are the most positive aspects of the animal advocacy movement for you, and what do you feel are the biggest reason to smile when doing this work?

M: We have every reason to be excited and optimistic. There are more vegans today than there have ever been. As the demand for vegan foods increases, the number of vegan options at supermarkets and restaurants will continue to go up, making it easier and easier for more and more people to make the change.  

KMIV: Many people "lean into" a vegan lifestyle, often with food & for health purposes initially, before connecting with the ethical, compassion-based founding elements of veganism. What advice would you give to someone who's just discovered compassionate living to help him/her understand what it's all about? Recommended resources?

Speciesism Mark DevriesM: In preview screenings, there were certain topics people were particularly interested in learning more about, and certain resources people were seeking, so I created an "after you've seen the movie" page at the film's website: 
http://SpeciesismTheMovie.com/next.  On that page, the first resource that I recommend for people who wish to change their eating habits is the new Mercy for Animals introduction to vegan eating, http://ChooseVeg.com/buildameal.

KMIV: We've been talking awhile and I know you must be getting hungry. Here's our KMIV classic: You're stuck on a deserted island with three vegan food items - what are they?

M: Kale, quinoa, and a Sticky Fingers breakfast sandwich.  Kale and quinoa are boring answers, I know, but I really do like them a lot, so at least I'm being honest.  As for the third item:  I live in Washington, DC not far from a place that every DC vegan knows, Sticky Fingers Bakery. Among their many items (all of which are vegan), is a breakfast sandwich made of vegan eggs and vegan sausage on an english muffin - seriously delicious (and don't forget to warm it up in the microwave).


Get on over to http://SpeciesismTheMovie.com/screenings to reserve your tickets for an upcoming screening. We hope all of our Los Angeles KMIV family/friends enjoy the screening on the 26th, as well as our KMIV family/friends around the country when the movie reaches you!

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Rock It Out Event 2010
Three years ago, KMIV organized "Rock It Out: A Night to Benefit New York's Farm Animal Sanctuaries." It was a magical night, as the event was filled with talented performers and performances, dedicated "warriors of compassion" speakers, a fun raffle, tasty food & a bake sale, and, most importantly, an open, receptive, and wonderful crowd. Over 150 people attended and we raised $3000 for New York's Woodstock Farm Animal Sanctuary and Farm Sanctuary Watkins Glen shelter.  You can read more about the night here. But read on first!

 Well, three years later, different coast, and we thought it was time to bring everyone together, to celebrate the merging of the worlds of creativity & compassion.  How so?  Through...


Saturday, September 7th, 2013 @ 6:00 pm 
280 South Los Robles Avenue
Pasadena, CA 91101

A Night of Creative Compassion Farm Sanctuary Fundraiser

We're tapping into our massive well of creativity & compassion to bring you a fun & engaging night of music, song, film, poetry, photography, painting, and more - a night of entertainment and deep love & connection. A Night of Creative Compassion is like a concert, exhibition, screening, and party all rolled into one.

If you live in the Los Angeles/Pasadena/Southern California area, please come on out for this.  We'd love love love to create an event that's even bigger than the NYC one.  And YOUR involvement & attendance is how it happens.  

Shaina Taub performing at Rock It Out 2010
Please check out our EVENT PAGE - where you can find out more info and purchase tickets to the event.  If you cannot make it, there's a "Will Be There In Spirit! donation" option.  The animals and Lindsay and myself appreciate all of your support in whatever way possible.

If you purchase your ticket through 8/23, you'll get the early bird discount of ONLY $15 (for all of the above)! PLUS if you're one of the first 25 ticketholders, you'll get 5 raffle tickets! So many ways to save yourself while you're helping save the animals.

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More info about the festival:
The event is still growing and growing into the magical gathering we've wanted to have out here on the west coast; here's some of the incredible talent that will be featured so far: 

  • The joyous music of Avasa & Matty Love
  • The spectacular artwork of Tania Marie
  • The engaging Yogatography of Cameron O'Steen
  • The dynamic elegance of Trio Azure, the string trio feat. Chrysanthe Tan, Kiara Ana Perico, and April Guthrie
  • The potent poetry of Robb Curtis
  • The tenacious rock duo of Kitten Kuroi & Damon Valley
  • The raw passion of singer Christy Paige
  • YOUR MOST KISSABLE KMIV BLOGGER, and singer, Lindsay Wolf
  • The Premiere of our short documentary, Frances: Compassion Through the Eyes of a Child
  • Clips from upcoming films, UNITY, Speciesism: The Movie, The Ghosts in Our Machine
  • and more coming...!

We'll have special guest speakers, food, drink, and awesome raffle prizes, including books - Ruby Roth's newest, being just one of them, Veggie Grill gift cards, Reiki/energy healing treatment packages, custom artwork, and much more (the theme for the night: so much more)!

And all of the night's proceeds will go to the animals of Farm Sanctuary.

If you're active online beyond the blog, on social media, we highly suggest jumping onto the event's FB page, RSVPing if you can make it, and sharing it with friends and family who may be interested in attending or getting involved.  This is all about community - our amazing community of compassionate minds and spirits and our connection with the amazing community of animals we are helping through these efforts.  The more people who know about it, the more everything that can happen!

A Night of Creative Compassion Farm Sanctuary Fundraiser
A truly aligned sacred tattoo design by featured artist 
Tania Marie - "Vegan Compassion"
Thank you for reading. Thank you for supporting. Thank you for sharing your creative, compassionate self with KMIV! We look forward to seeing you at the event!

Love & vegan kisses, 
Steve & Lindsay




A Thought As You Go Through Your Day.

I can do no other than be reverent before everything that is called life. I can do no other than to have compassion for all that is called life. That is the beginning and the foundation of all ethics. - Albert Schweitzer