Learning how to French kiss properly is well worth it. If you're
labelled a "kissing dud" you're pretty much a dating disaster till you
get it right.
It's easy to learn if you follow these simple step
by step instructions that will have the person you're kissing thinking
that you're the best kisser they've ever had.
First, there are
some fundamentals to being a great kisser. These include being willing
to experiment, having imagination, being kind and patient, preparing for
it, respecting the person you're with, being able to communicate and,
very important, having good self-confidence.
Second, it's
important that your personal hygiene is up to scratch. That means you
don't have bad breath (ask friends if you have to), you don't have a
rough beard and you don't have body odour (again ask friends if you have
to).
Third, you need to be able to hold your breath for a period
of time. Unfortunately if you don't breathe you will become light headed
and your mo
uth will create too much saliva and that is a no-no. Simply
take a deep breath at the start and allow your ribs to expand. Take a
deep breath slowly and this will allow you to have some kept for
reserve.
Four, make sure your body is in a comfortable position to
ensure flexibility and that you can move your body without having to
stop the kiss. Make sure your partner is comfortable also.
Five, tilt your head to the right when you come in to kiss so that your noses don't crash with one another.
Six,
when you kiss for the first time try to make it so that their top lip
goes between your two lips. If you're a guy look her straight in the eye
when you come in to kiss and tilt her chin up towards you slightly.
Kiss her again like this and then tilt your head and then slowly and
gently move your tongue into their mouth. After you feel their tongue
touch yours just let them touch slowly. Keep continuing with that until
your tongue movements speed up. Whatever you don't, don't stick your
tongue down their throats or make them want to gag. Ease into the French
kiss and take things slowly as much as possible.